Practicing Compassion Without Falling Apart
Understanding the Four Misconceptions
Wednesday, November 19 – Thursday, November 20
7:00pm–9:00pm PST (Pacific Standard Time)
in person and online
Program Category: Dharma Education — Introductory
This is a hybrid event, and we are using the
Zoom video conferencing system
for online participants.
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True compassion doesn’t mean carrying the weight of the world or losing ourselves in others’ pain. Often, what we call compassion is tangled up with unconscious beliefs—subtle distortions in how we view ourselves, others, and the nature of experience.
Shakyamuni Buddha taught the Four Noble Truths, beginning with the truth of suffering. In this two-evening program, Geshe Thubten Sherab will explore the four key misconceptions that cloud our understanding of suffering:
- Seeing permanence in the impermanent — believing things will last forever when they are constantly changing
- Seeing satisfaction in the unsatisfactory — expecting lasting happiness from things that cannot truly fulfill
- Seeing self in the selfless — identifying with what has no fixed, independent identity
- Seeing purity in the impure — assuming things are flawless when they are mixed with discomfort and decay
These misconceptions quietly shape how we respond to suffering—both our own and others’. By recognizing and releasing them, we open the door to a kind of compassion that is grounded, wise, and sustainable.
Each session will include guided meditations to help integrate the teachings, along with time for Q&A and personal reflection.
Geshe Sherab
was born in Manang/Nepal in 1967. He attended
Kopan Monastery
at age nine and was ordained by Kyabje
Lama Zopa Rinpoche. After 10 years of study in Kopan, he
went to Sera Je Monastery for further studies in 1987 and
graduated as Geshe at the end of 1999. After that, he
joined Gyume Tantric College for a year. Then he taught
young monks at Kopan for a year.
In 2001, he was sent by
Lama Zopa Rinpoche to New Mexico to serve and help at the
International Office of FPMT and teach at
Thubten Norbu Ling
in Santa Fe
and Ksiti Garbha Center
in Taos as resident teacher.
He also served as a Board member of FPMT for two years during
that period. By the end of 2003 in December he returned to
Nepal to do his own practices. In 2006 he was appointed as
Head Master of Kopan Monastery and served for four
years. He served as acting Abbot for a year in 2011 when
the late Guru Khensur Rinpoche Lama Lhundup became ill. He
also taught at Kopan during the meditation courses there.
He has been resident Geshe at Thubten Norbu Ling Buddhist Center
in Santa Fe, NM since 2013. He spends 6 months of
the year in Santa Fe and the rest of 6 months, he travels and
teaches around the world, in the United States, Canada, many
parts of Europe, Asia, Mexico, Guatemala and Australia.
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